God's Gift wrote:I, for one, have run into many many men who were turned on by my confidence/arrogance whatever you want to call it. And more importantly, they were turned on by my great looks. I'm lucky that men love my pretty face, amazing legs and gigantic boobs, because they have all been turned off by my super massive, loose vagina.drew wrote:confidance and arrgance are complatly difrent, im a confidant guy when im out and about ill chat to any one (apart from chavs i dont want to catch any thing) how ever
argance makes you unatractive (to me) how ever your right self consious girls are un atractive to when they ask you every day am i pritty enough, so you may be right maybe theres no winner but for me, i want a girl that makes me laugh i have fun with and mentaly turns me on after that i dont care so much what you look like
(and i think i have found it in my current gf)
a super massive loose vagina is a good thing these days? gawd I cant keep up.
Look lady, as a girl who is also attracted to girls my take on all of this is that confidence is attractive, so long as it is not delusion and while you are not unnattractive by any means you ARE really pretty average. This is simply my opinion there are obviously people who disagree with me here. But that is the thing about attraction, it really differs from person to person. So if you're bleating about how sexy you are to someone who doesn't find you attractive, it makes you seem less attractive and annoying. Whereas if you're talking to someone who does think you're hot S***, they're gonna be like hell yeah, and see it as a positive trait. Such is the risk with talking yourself up.
So long as you think you're hot the rest doesn't really matter.















