by RAIMON HARRELL on Sat Aug 02, 2008 5:35 am
I think that penis size matters, but not in all the ways that women and men place emphasis on. You need enough penis so that you can adequately rub the labia, causing them to create an overall tug on the clitoris, causing orgasm. For the most part I think that women comment on penis size in the way that they do in order to exert some contro. If she says that we're small, lacking, or they can say that they did not feel anything, in which all of these things hurts us "cause we want to be da man". RIGHT!!!!! When a woman is not fully stimulated they take it as we don't care about there satisfaction. Which some of us dont. Men are very selfish. Most don't even know the meaning of good foreplay, don't mention great foreplay. For example: My size is seven inches in lenght and 6.5 in girth when fully erect. I think that this is good size. I'm not huge but not small. I consider it to be slightly above average in size, which most women would consider to be ideal. I don't extreme emphasis on my size because I'm very skilled overall. I know how to kiss and have long endurance for it. I know where 90% of the female erogenous zones are and I also know how to stimulate them. The things that I do to my wife's g-spot causes her to have thigh shuttering, toe curling, deep pelvic orgasms. When I locate and touch this particular spot inside her vagina she immediately starts gasping sharply, and her body goes into spasmodic thrusts. But lastly she considers my cunnilingus skill supreme in comparison. Some of you guys (men) probably have not even heard of the g-spot and maybe you have but do you take time out to give an orgasm just stimulating this area. Or do you take great pride in making your partner orgasm from kissing, sucking and licking her one her neck area. What about stimulating her g-spot manually while licking or sucking her clitoris @ the same time?ts called "dual stimulation" and is extremely eroctically intense making the female multi-orgasmic and you a "sex-god". Remember ladies and gentlemen; all men can't have large penises, just like all women can't be curvy and volumptous. We all have different skills to bring to the table. But men, if you don't take great pride in pleasing your woman, it doesnt matter if you have 10-12 inches you still will not be a great lover. Because being gerat or even decent @ anything requires skill, passion, and hard work. Possesing a large penis does not make you a great lover. I tell you why. Think about it, you're not doing much. You're not required to perform many skilled moves because the fascination with large penises is largely contributory to the visual stimulation that it brings. I have heard women say that just looking @ a large penis makes them wet or some have even spoken of having an orgasm from looking @ one. Take the strong visual component and combine it with some skill, passion and desire and just imagine what kind of response you'll get and also the payback that comes with it. You see, the female orgasmic response is sometimes hard to accomplish. (But if you know what you're doing it's not) But once it starts it's almost like a domino effect. Fellas... Please don't get hung up on dimensions, they're ust numbers and mean nothing. And most women don't know what 9 inches is without measuring. If a guy tells her that he has 9 inches, she's more inclines to believe it because most women don'e posses good estimation skills ( especially when it comes to lenght and distance). So they can be looking @ 6 inches and think its 9, and this is the reason that her last lover was so good, because 6 inches is more of a perfect fit than 9 inches. I believe that if all the guys were as big as they claim, they would'nt get much sex, because most women are afraid of the size penises. Don't get me wrong I have immense confidence in my size. In fact, I don't want anymore size. But I take more pride in my skills. These guys that are large today won't always be able to rely on the size and development of their penis. There will come a time when skill will mean much more. Skill, passion, desire and endurance also allows your partner to get to known you so you can etablish that bond. It says something about your personality, your creativity and most importantly you desire to please for and to please her. This in itself is one of the huggest turnons for women, because women love to be desired and wanted and they also love affection.
Sorry I know I shouldn't laugh, I don't think personally 4" is enough, you could just learn to be good with your hands or tongue even and be a bit adventurous about it.
