No real interest in sex with my partner

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Hopeiseternal
 

No real interest in sex with my partner

Postby Hopeiseternal on Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:54 pm

For the last six months,of a 2yr relationship, i have noticed that im losing my interest in sex, and lacking in erections.Im 36 yrs old and my lovable partner is 31. Though this has not really effected our relationship as of yet, makiing love happpens once a month. I used to be quite active, but with my partner,with her work and pressure there only seems to be time set in diary for love. I never am pushie, cos i know there are times when the mood is not right.But to be honest sex does not seem important now to me, although i have had conversations with my partner, and her conclusion, im gettting older. And it was time to trade me in for a newer model. Of course i want to satisfy her as before but it seems comin less often, as the months pass.Is she getting bored with me?

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Emily B
 

Re: No real interest in sex with my partner

Postby Emily B on Wed Sep 24, 2008 12:14 am

Hopeiseternal wrote:Is she getting bored with me?


Maybe you're getting bored with her? Have you managed to worrk up the energy to marry her? Being married to a real man who can find the energy to take care of her makes a BIG difference to how a woman responds. It's much more difficult (because of stuffed resentment) if you're just shacked up.

Otherwise you ought to go through a brief hygiene checklist: Does she wash frequently? Does she smell "off"? Is her breath clean? Have you learned how to bring her to a crashing orgasm easily? Are you circumcized and if not, can you work up the energy to wash your knob before sex? Does she like to play with your dick? Does she get wet when you tickle her or tell her you love her? These are just a few questions you should ask. In real life, any man, no matter how lazy, has the capacity to work up the enthusiasm to enjoy life with any woman. It's in our nature to do it - and enjoy it.


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