Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2004 10:08 am Post subject: Swinging session gone wrong!
Hey there people, I need a bit of info, got a sticky situation to deal with.
I am not really a relationship person - find them too constricting, and prefer to do my own thing. My best mate is the exact opposite - she has been with her partner for 5 years, they have a kid and are always together. Anyway, I hooked up with her boyfriends mate at this disguise party she had for her 25th bday - we all wore disguised outfits, and went in rooms with someone from the opposite sex - and I was told I was going in a room with T-Jay - her boyfriends mate).
Was a great night, and the next day we were chatting and thought nothing of it. Then her boyfriend came downstairs and asked Jami (my friend) when she got her tattoo. She said she doesnt have one, and he started to describe it to her. I quickly realised he was descirbing a small heart tottoo I have at the top of my leg. Jami knows I have this, and she realised that I had slept with her man, and she had slept with T-Jay - we had got them mixed up.
Jami was sick, and told me to leave, and she threw her man's clothes outside. I was shocked, but we all made a mistake, it wasnt intentional. She has spoken to me since, and is ashamed she slept with her man's best mate, and her man with me. She is going on holiday to sort her head out, but I personally see it is a major misunderstanding where everyone is to blame.
Am I the only one who thinks she is going way OTT with this? They were both in thew wrong, just make double sure next time. Why is she thinking of ending her relationship when its so good?
Just to make sure I've got this right. Your friend slept with someone and didn't realize it was not her man of five years. (coz he was in disguise !!!!!) And he made the same 'mistake' with you ?? So she threw her fellas clothes and him out.????? Are these people blind or something? OOps, no. He could see a tattoo How come she didn't throw herself and her own clothes out? How come she's mad at you? Doesn't she take ANY responsibility for her own actions? Typical woman. ! Always got to blame a man.
truely, how can that be possible??
were u all so drunk that u didn't care who u were having sex with?
or is it possible to not realize that it's somebody else kissing you, touching you, F****** you????????
your mate and her man should have realized that they were having sex with somebody else..
she shouldn't be mad at you...
i think the four of u should sit together and talk things through...
this is really weird...
It is a bit strange that even in disguise you mates bf did not know and the fact he mentioned the tattoo as if he was suprised that she had one how could he not know something like that. It strikes me as though the two blokes new what they were doing and planned it and it was deliberate that he let slip about the tattoo. Though your mate must be stupid if she did not know her bf of 5 years and what he felt and tasted/smelt like. Could be that all three were in on it and now your mate is having second thoughts.
If that is so some mate.
How strange!
Sounds just as much, girls will be girls, to me. Maybe if her fella hadn't mentioned the tattoo, your friend would have got away with screwing your fella behind your back and you would never have known. So she blames her own fella (not yours, note) and chucks him and his clothes out to cover herself.
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How come she didn't throw herself and her own clothes out? How come she's mad at you? Doesn't she take ANY responsibility for her own actions? Typical woman. ! Always got to blame a man. 