Jealously? or just parinoid

[GreenEyed]

I have been with my fella 4 2 years nearly.we used 2 live together,but went our seperate ways on xmas eve,moving back home with our parents.

I found a text in his outbox 2 a disguised blokes name,we always look at eachothers phone,he must of forgot it was there,it said "dont ring me aims{me] is still ere I will see uw hen im out.I rung the number sure enough it was a girl,she said she didny know him plus loadsa people uses her phone.when I confronted him,he said it was an old mate and he hid it from me 2 protect me,he thinks I get jealous.I know I do but hes the same.we argue all the time.never agree.I accuse him of being sneaky and causin rows so he can get out.he accuses me of goin behind his back,I never have.

hes the pub man,I like going around 2 mates 2 chill.were 2gether again I believed him.we stay at a mates house now just so we can b together but its going back 2 constant arguin,we dont really touch eachother passionantly,only if he wants to do it.if I go near him.

I feel like im putting him out or something.in a few weeks were meant 2 b lookin at gettin our own place,but his mate will b there ,im thinkin thats good cause then it wont b just me and me fella.im confused should I do this,stay with him or what.when we get on were great trust me,we know everything about eachother.but we disagree all the time.its so disheartening 2 c him chatting and laughin with everyone but me,I cant take it.

[Rebb's]

If I was you i would forget moving into your own olace until you get sorted out. There is nothing wrong with argueing , hey peolple can't live together constantly without but you should have some fun laughs ect, Maybe you have just grown out of each other.
But find out make sure you are not together just because you havent got anyone else or just because you are

[Jim]

The arguing all the time is a symptom of something seriously wrong. To say there is nothing wrong with arguing is like saying there's nothing wrong with a runny nose. There's a virus in the relationship.

Wipe the arguing and work at solving the problem.

[mooz]

hey ..... ok ok .. sorry if this sounds too jelled and paranoid for u..but i get negative feelingsss all the time., thats me .. well really im pretty positive butttt.. when my bf talks to my twin sis on the phone.. it can make me think and wonder.. but even thogh i know they're just in it to bug me but still i cant help the evil "negative-seeker" inside me... it just tells me... becareful...and it warns me.. watch out... twin sis twin sis twin sis.. uh oh uh oh uhhohhh! ..but ya i just need to breathe.. go for a run.... and yaaa spill it all out in my modblog.. or scream it out loud ahhhhhhh alrighty...

well thats all for now folks.. ahha see ya later.. keep jellin the tellin.

jk.. ok .. bye. haa

*i need to grow up ya.. iknow i know.

[Guest]

Well Argueing is fine its health for the relationship
Consistant argueing is another matter your not getting on ok alright you have to think abou the problems and in your case its that you dont trust him and i can see why you wouldnt trust him
but anyway him going to the pub and leaving you alone while he goes and talks to all his mates and hardly says boo to you all night then yeah i think you need to talk and let him know that you need attection and you need to stand up for yaself and let him know whats going on

anyway maybe i have fallen of the track to what the question was i forget lol

goodluck

[mooz]

[AJ]

Off track or on track that is the question!