Were am i goin wrong?

[TheBankGirl]

what is wrong with me ? im 36 yung lookin for my age so im told & i look after myself to keep it that way ! i am attracted to yunger men & have dated a couple but there not intorested in a fullon relationship with a woman of my age no matter how well preserved i keep myself or is it just me?
i have been married twice , but dont wish to do it again but would luv a boyfriend ,do they all think we just want to get hitched ?

im not shy when i get to know someone & i enjoy sex iv no hangups ect.. so anyone got any heplfull hinters for me plzzz? : )

[Harry]

For what it's worth, when I was in my mid twenties I went out with a woman who was 30 something. It was quite a big thing for me, she was single sexy and, compared with me, very worldly. I really enjoyed her company but felt quite daunted by the relationship. I really felt like a toy boy and that a real one would turn up soon and I would be dropped. To be honest if she had been married and separated I don't think I could have handled it. I can't really expalain why, perhaps just that it would have seemed like she had so much more experience that I did I would forever feel inadequate.

Is it just younger men you are having dfficulty with? If you look like you sound then I would have thought there would be a lot of men closer to your age who would be really interested, and meeting a woman who doesn't want to lock you into a tight relationship can be a real turn on.

[artsy]

I'm in the same boat as you, Bank Girl. I'm 39 and I'm attracted to younger men. Guys my age just look and act so old! I've never yet met one that I could relate to. (no offense you you guys in your late 30s) Like you tho, I find the young ones don't stick around. When they meet me they think I'm great because they think I'm 29 max but when they find out my real age (I never lie) they get weird on me. They still want to date me but not seriously. The only one, recently, who did want to have more with me was way too young. I was 36 (is 3 yrs ago recent?) and he was 24 but I found him too immature. Justifiably so.

I've kind of given up. I'm just really not attracted, sexually, to older men and the boys are often not into more than just a shag. I want more but if I can't have more I'll settle for nothing. Sad but true.

I figure when I'm 80 I'll settle down with a nice young 60 yr old boy and live happily ever after

[artsy]

and you know what they say, you're only as old as the boys that you feel so we may as well feel as young as we can for as long as we can

[Jd]

You go for it girlfriend

[CE]

it may just be cos your ugly , ever thought of that?

[Wendy]

CE dont be stupid this is a good board dont go daft and wasting our time. Its advice shes after not silly comments. hey bank girl dont give up the right man will be there for you. It may take a little while to find him.

[TURTLE]

BANK GIRL I LOVE OLDER WOMEN, AND IM NOT SCARED TO GET WITH THEM, YOU SOUND JUST FINE TO ME, AND IF YOU LIVE IN ENGLAND LET ME KNOW ILL REGISTER AND WELL SWAP NUMBERS, I THINK YOU JUST HAVNT FOUND A YOUNG MAN, MAN ENOUGH FOR YOU YET

[Andy Spoo]

Hi.

Well, it can work out. I'm 13 years younger than my girlfriend (I'm 35 now). We've been together for 11 years. And the relationship is great

A number of my friends already knew her before we got together, which probably helps, and my other friends have grown to like her.

She has 2 kids (in fact, she was married when we first met, but we won't go into that), which over the years have become my friends. They tell me things which they wouldn't dare tell there parents, but I can still give parental advise.

Everyones different. You just have to find the right person.

Where are you looking for guys? If it's in bars/clubs, they're probably just after a shag (but you already know this). To find a nice guy, you have to look in a nice place. Maybe you should widen your circle of activities to meet new people?

Keep the faith.

Andy xx

[Pab Me]

I am going out with a girl woman really who is 40 I am 29 she is a absolute stunner she was previously married has to older children and its the best relationship I ever been in. We have lots of fun she has her own house I have mine and we will stay together for good I hope its what we both want. There is nothing wrong with younger blokes and older women

[sharyn]

CE : please do not make stupid, ignorant and rude comments to anyone on this board let alone bank girl she is a gr8 girl and is asking for our advice not to be mad fun of

BG the guys uve been going with aren't good enough for u anyway hun
keep looking have fun and im sure u'll find mr right now at somepoint