Gemini

[fresher]

i am married to a gemini, and he's a whole handfull,lol. easily persuaded to do anything by anybody,he has to be entertained always, very funny when he wants to be, vv caring and loyal, protective toward his family.a all round nice man and i love him dearly.xxxBUT,there is another side to him that is easily wound up, a sulking prat, and a he thinks way beyond his capacity untill he does his own head in, is extremley both fierey and passionate,

[latias_ca]

sounds like me!

[Guest]

i am married to a gemini, and he's a whole handfull,lol. easily persuaded to do anything by anybody,he has to be entertained always, very funny when he wants to be, vv caring and loyal, protective toward his family.a all round nice man and i love him dearly.xxxBUT,there is another side to him that is easily wound up, a sulking prat, and a he thinks way beyond his capacity untill he does his own head in, is extremley both fierey and passionate,

OMG thats my hubby to a T and he's a gemini.I'm a taurus so I'm pretty stubborn but you have to see him in one of his sulks.

[sweet_girl]

i think geminis are great fun. They are not the ones to stay on thier feet for long. They can talk 4r ages exerting themselves out of a idea. They are good laugh and fun though. Really sweet individuals

[tamachant]

What do you think about the sign Gemini? What experiences have you had with Gemini males and females that led you to your current opinions on people of the sign? What do you like about them? What do you absolutely LOVE about them?

Gemini's make me nervous. They are flighty, not very grounded and i need calmness. I've noticed a physical attractivity, but the nervousness is something i don't like much because i'm a nervous person myself. Oh, what i LOVE ? I must say Gemini is one of my least favourite signs.

hehe, so true, I am Gemini and just like this. I dislike it myself at times!

[VideoGamer]

I would say I was pretty deep. This is probably helped by my religion (or lack thereof) : I flicker between atheist and agnostic. I'm an open-minded sceptic (oxymoron, I know) - in other words I believe anything could be possible, and don't think you can take anything for granted.

Unsuprisingly, I'm generally opposed to stereotypes used outside of humor. I don't feel the need to follow the crowd, aside from protecting myself (I'm shy, so while I'd like to express myself I'm too scared to a lot of the time). Eg: I'm proud of being bisexual, but you won't catch me telling that to anyone I feel I can't trust.

Horocopes are one of my guilty little habits: I try to not believe it, but I can't help myself reading my horoscope in glossy magazines.

{A gemini}

[Guest]

Um…….. “…Gemini’s aren’t deep thinkers…. they don’t care about people… they’re no grounded… so many people don’t like them…”

Fortunately it takes all kinds. To one person the enjoyment of movement and quickness of thought (often described as a Gemini trait) is disturbing and indicates a fickle nature. For another the seemingly dependable and fixed individual with dedication to single outcome (perhaps a Libra trait?) may be perceived as boring and narrowly focused by other… etc etc. Its a matter of how you interact with these characteristics and how you interpret them. Underneath your own interpretation the truth may be very different.

To all those who accept and even embrace the differences, to all those who choose respect and love over judgment and prejudice… god bless you.

[Guest]

Um…….. “…Gemini’s aren’t deep thinkers…. they don’t care about people… they’re no grounded… so many people don’t like them…”

Fortunately it takes all kinds. To one person the enjoyment of movement and quickness of thought (often described as a Gemini trait) is disturbing and indicates a fickle nature. For another the seemingly dependable and fixed individual with dedication to single outcome (perhaps a Libra trait?) may be perceived as boring and narrowly focused by other… etc etc. Its a matter of how you interact with these characteristics and how you interpret them. Underneath your own interpretation the truth may be very different.

To all those who accept and even embrace the differences, to all those who choose respect and love over judgment and prejudice… god bless you.

To not like a trait doesn't mean one doesn't respect a person, it can just mean that you can't be around such types because their traits make you nervous. Think a little before you automatically assume it means one doesn't respect, please! God Bless You.

[Guest]

Quote:

"To not like a trait doesn't mean one doesn't respect a person, it can just mean that you can't be around such types because their traits make you nervous. Think a little before you automatically assume it means one doesn't respect, please! God Bless You."

No automatic assumptions made. We do actually agree on the point you make in your first sentence and you are no doubt one who looks for truth over assumption.

But a point of misunderstanding may exist here. The meanings often assigned in these stereotypes are commonly value laden, and sometimes derogatory, but do not necessarily reflect the truth of the person or group to whom they are assigned. The statements and contrary experiences described in posts above indicate this. Whether intended or not, when this stereotyping occurs and people are judged on the assumptions underlying these stereotypes, a lapse of respect has occurred for the person or group to which it is applied.

[Guest]

Quote:

"To not like a trait doesn't mean one doesn't respect a person, it can just mean that you can't be around such types because their traits make you nervous. Think a little before you automatically assume it means one doesn't respect, please! God Bless You."

No automatic assumptions made. We do actually agree on the point you make in your first sentence and you are no doubt one who looks for truth over assumption.

But a point of misunderstanding may exist here. The meanings often assigned in these stereotypes are commonly value laden, and sometimes derogatory, but do not necessarily reflect the truth of the person or group to whom they are assigned. The statements and contrary experiences described in posts above indicate this. Whether intended or not, when this stereotyping occurs and people are judged on the assumptions underlying these stereotypes, a lapse of respect has occurred for the person or group to which it is applied.

The ones I have met aggravated me. Make whatever you will out of that!

[Guest]

Quote: "The ones I have met aggravated me. Make whatever you will out of that!"

It is not for me to make anything out of that since its not really contrary to any point I have made. It is more a question of the values and judgments made of others because of of the traits assigned to them (perceived or real). Since you have not declared these or may not even have presumed any other than to recognize that you are aggravated by some people who act or express things in certain ways, what bone could I possibly have to pick to you? Some folks aggravate me too! In fact I think we might agree on this, just have a different way of expressing/understanding it.

[Guest]

I disagree. Geminis are very deep thinkers. It's just that when they show wild, playful side, which gives the impression that they are fickle, people think they are flighty and such.

But few people see what Gemini is really like. They are deep thinkers and grounded and do care a lot of people's feelings.

Do not talk shite they dont give a F*** about other peoples feelings. If i met a gemini who cares about other peoples feelings id be totaly shocked. Yes they might be deep thinkers because they are calculating people plan everything out in there calculating little f*cked up head.

[Guest]

i think geminis are radical, fiery funloving ppl! my best freind is a gemini and seriously is very fun 2 be around. she throws popcorn at people in the movies, stuff like that, that really have no point she just wanna hav fun! she can have a covorsation with anyoine abotu anything because she knows lots of random crap but can actully tell me about it in detail. i have noticed though that she is very very shy around new people, or new friends that i introduced her too. but after while shell warm up and show her bubbly adorable playful side. i dont know, maybe shyness is not typical for gemini but she is at times.

They are like this at the start wait intill you know the real her

[Guest]

I disagree. Geminis are very deep thinkers. It's just that when they show wild, playful side, which gives the impression that they are fickle, people think they are flighty and such.

But few people see what Gemini is really like. They are deep thinkers and grounded and do care a lot of people's feelings.

I have yet to meet a Gemini who is all that.

me to

I'm very shy when meeting new people , i'll wait for them to talk me and once I get to know them I come out of my shell and like to have fun and can have a laugh even though it may be at my expense.

Havnt met a gemini like you before either I'd say they'd rather you made fun of yourself make them like the clown and they'd get paranoyed and nasty

[Guest]

Gemini:
Duel and split personality
Nervous and tense
Superficial and inconsistent
Cunning and inquisitive