well, we'll see. i would have contacted her but i am with someone and so that would be v v unfair. actually i'm content with my girlfriend although the animal chemistry isn't nearly so strong!
if anything happens i'll make a posting for you to "inspect"!
i was surprised she contacted me. we'd been apart for 8 months when this all started. it was weird because she has/had a boyfriend but chose never to mention him. she's far too vain and stubborn to directly ask me back but it was in the air.
the full story is in the "just for men" forum. the author name is "very-confused" ( which i was at the time ) the message title was "i need some good advice" It may be on page 2 or 3 by now as i haven't checked recently.
at a guess, you agree that she was interested in getting back together ( not sure if she was hung up on me however! )
thanks for your message and welcome to the FF forum!
heart says yes i'd like to be with her but head says no. and sure, i think about her everyday and about what could have been.
but too much time has passed and i don't have the mental energy to persue the issue. i know we avoid each other like the plague. i'd take a guess that she shares the same thoughts as me but she, too, hurt when we split.
i've developed a "nasty" habit of bumping in to her friends for some reason. no conversation just sheepish smiles!
i could go on but it would bore you!. hope birmingham is sunny cos it's lovely here in scotland. think i'll get out on my bike!!
al x