can't get horny

[NaeNay]

most of the time i can't get horny and my husband can't take it anymore, what should i do? i have emotional problems from traumatic experiences, but i want to keep my husband happy, please help

[Guest]

If your husband's a good guy then he should give you some time to handle what's bothering you. Come on, before he was with anyone he had to do it himself. It shouldn't hurt him so much to just do it himself, or chill and wait.

(does anyone know why i can't login, my password and username are both right and i checked it a few times, anyone got the same problem?)

[NaeNay]

yes but does anyone know like any natural aphrodesiacs or tricks we can use? i don't want time to get over things, it's been years, i just have trouble getting in the mood, and i want to make love to my husband, i just feel sometimes that i can't get in the mood. like sometimes after i watch a romantic movie i am so horny i just take him, but most of the time it's just dead. some1 plz help, even suggestions will help i'm willing to try almost anything

[bugrit]

(does anyone know why i can't login, my password and username are both right and i checked it a few times, anyone got the same problem?)

No problem here, as you can see but I've been logged on for a while. Maybe the site is having problems. I'll try logging off and on, in a mo.

NaeNay, you have two threads going now, both on the same issue. Naughty, naughty, NaeNay.

[Loserrr]

What happens if I seriously can't get horny? Like...never in my life (I'm 15) have I gotten horny before....all my friends talk abuot a good feeling and how they have masturbated....I've even tried but it doesn't do anything for me. Me trying to masturbate

[DavUK]

Maybe you should try thinking more sexually to relax about the subject. Try reading some erotic fiction either here or on Literotica to see what turns you on. masturbate
Do that for a couple of weeks then abstain for a couple of days to see if you get horny.

I am on the flip side of this kind of thing, my wife has had a rough time the past couple of years and has lost most of her sex drive and has turned vanilla. I still love her but can't imagine the rest of my life like this if she doesn't start to feel like her old self.

[DavUK]

Loserr, firstly change your nick as you should put yourself down!

Sex is partly a mental thing, actually very mental. Have you considered that the things you think about when you masturbate

[Guest]

yes but does anyone know like any natural aphrodesiacs or tricks we can use? i don't want time to get over things, it's been years, i just have trouble getting in the mood, and i want to make love to my husband, i just feel sometimes that i can't get in the mood. like sometimes after i watch a romantic movie i am so horny i just take him, but most of the time it's just dead. some1 plz help, even suggestions will help i'm willing to try almost anything

What is it about the romatic movies that turns you on? If it's slow seduction in a nice resturant then go to a resturant with him. If it's fierce "take me now" sex, then try it. Maybe most importantly let your husband know. Let him in on the secrets of your sensuality.

[Champion]

Lol this is Loserrrr or whatever I had before. I changed my username since I was asked not to put myself down. Is this better? hehe...
Anyways, thank you both for the advice, I'll try what you said and see if it works. I just found it weird that my friends can get horny without even doing anything at all. I guess maybe I just have to work a little harder than them at it.