Advice for me

[IrishFox]

I lefted work late last year to start another job, in the time that I have lefted my old job I had a brief fling with a former work buddies of mine.

I really liked him and still do, however the fling ended quite badly due to some lies I told and I dont think he can forgive me.The big problem is I have decided to return to my old job, I am almost certain he will igorn me, which we get to me.

I need on advice on how to deal with this and tips on how to win him back

[Gilly]

I know you will probably want me to tell you how you can win him back but I can only give you how I see it and what possibly I would do.
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The best advice I can give is to be totally honest with him and hold your hands up to whatever it is you lied about, this takes real guts. If you are sorry he will genuinly see that. The next thing is to ask if he'll forgive you and can you try again.
Here is where you will get your answer.
If he is willing to forgive, it will mean he is placing his trust in you once again. This is important beause without trust, love cannot flourish.

If not, I would think carefully about putting yourself in the position of taking your old job back. It might be time to look for new opportunities that may be coming your way. A new start, a new chapter!
Working in the same place I feel would be a painful reminder and I wouldn't want to see you put yourself through this.
I hope this helps, [/i]