No Foreplay

[Dan Dan]

hey everyone, thank you for reading this and hopefully I will be able to get some help from yall. so I have been with a girl for about a month and we have been speaking of having sex with each other but she made me understand she never was/wanted to be fingered or have anything else done to her down there :S. so would yall think it is ok to have our first time without any foreplay? she has never had sex before either but she seems to realy want it. should I keep talking to her about trying it or just have it her way?
cheers for your help! much appreciated
i dont want it to be painful for her or anything

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Hey Dan Dan

Try sucking her nipples once you have her naked, slowly at first... this will get her ready for sex and will appeal to her. You could try playing with yourself as this is happening to show her it is normal to fondle body parts. If she starts to buck her hips, it may be your cue to gently brush a finger against her labia by "accident". Go slow and remember if she does open up to the idea, oral sex before deflowering a virgin may be to both your benefits!