by NikNox on Thu Sep 07, 2006 11:25 am
My husband's ex is pretty similar! Why can't these women get over it? He left her because she's an ex-heroin addict and now is an alcoholic but the mother of his daughter. She leaves the kid (7) alone looking after her 2 year old brother (not my husband's), and we've contacted Social Services who are absolutely bloody useless. We are now going down the legal route, at great expense, and I think that's the only thing any of us in this position can do. At least then they can't argue with a court! Trouble is, these women always take it out on us in the way of preventing our men from seeing their kids, and then it's the kids who suffer. My only comfort is that I know that one day my husband's daughter will realise what a bitch her mother is, and that will be her karma. Because these women pull all the strings and have all the power we just have to sit back and wait for their karma to kick them where it hurts. Believe me, it WILL happen, and if you remain where you are and don't sink to her level then you can have your time to gloat at her.
It's hard, I know, but stick with it. She'll get hers one day and it'll be from her own creation!
Be good to yourself!!