a dream of rape??? MiMiiiiiiiiii

xxcrazybabyxx · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 09 Sep 2006 Posts: 13

i had a dream recently that somebody i know raped me.
It wasnt the actual rape that bothered me, it was the way he did it, drugging me stupid to trick me into doing it. The rape itself was niether pleasant nor unpleasant, just as if i were drunk and didnt really know what was happening ??? The most upsetting thing about the dream was having to tell his wife. Confused

hottrod · Posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 11:57 pm Post subject:

just a few questions:

1. in the past few months have you felt a loss of control, your self-esteem going down, your tierd alot or had an emotional downfall of sorts?
2. have you had any feeling for this freind in the past?
3. do you work with the friend and is he above you at work?
4. has he lied or cheated you out of something recently?
5. has he tried to influence you into doing something that you dont want to do or is hard for you to do?

xxcrazybabyxx · Hello. I am New! Talk to Me Joined: 09 Sep 2006 Posts: 13

just a few questions:

1. in the past few months have you felt a loss of control, your self-esteem going down, your tierd alot or had an emotional downfall of sorts?
2. have you had any feeling for this freind in the past?
3. do you work with the friend and is he above you at work?
4. has he lied or cheated you out of something recently?
5. has he tried to influence you into doing something that you dont want to do or is hard for you to do?

Well he's actually my boss!!! I don't feel like he does any of those things, but i do worry about the relationship between him and my friend as he has cheated on a girlfriend in the past, and she recently revealed to me, much to my dissapointment that she would stay with him even if he was physically violent towards her Confused

Does this dream mean that i dont trust him ???

hottrod · Posted: Sun Sep 10, 2006 9:42 pm Post subject:

I don't think you compleatly trust him and you are woried about your friend becuae you know his past and because hes your boss and he has hert you more on an emotional level you see yourself as being the victum in the dream because of this and when you have to tell your friend its just confirming your fears of her being hert by him.