V.CURIOUS wrote:Ok girls, be honest, what is it REALLY like being intimate with another woman? I'm writing as a woman who wants to experiment but I've built up my fantasies so much that I'll probably feel disappointed if/when it happens.
I am reproducing this post I made on the subject in another topic in 'same sex room', hoping it might be helpful.
The evidence from research is that the majority of women have fantasies about other women, but few would want to admit it even though it is NORMAL! Fortunately we live at a time when 'openess' in sexual matters is more acceptable, & internet forums like this enable us to share frankly our thoughts, feelings, wants & needs. I have a number of married women (usually married 10 yrs or more) contacting me wanting to explore their 'bi' feelings and associated sexual fantasies. I think this is healthy and we can learn a lot by sharing & possibly have a lot of pleasure from it. (eg: cyber fantasy sex) BUT for married women it holds enormous risks if you want to 'do it for real'! I know women who have & it has done 2 things -- proved to be a great disappointment AND ruined their marriage ! The grass always appears greener on the other side of the fence but that's invariably an illusion in matters sexual as in other areas of our life. I suggest that if we are in a committed relationship we stick to enjoying in fantasy the pleasure of our fantasies and not think 'the real thing' must be better -- the chances are highly likely it will not be so & there wll have been a price to pay for it, even if that is no more than a feeling of personal loss of self-esteem & associated guilt from what is tantamount to adultery.
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