need help to take my relationship to the next step

[mike32]

hi all,
I have been seeing my gf for over a hafe of year now. We both decide to wait till we get marray for sex. My question is how can i make my relationship better with her. Yes we do kiss but thats alll we do. can someone tell me how i can make it better for her and me. I was also told that i should ask her if she every masterbated
thanks for the help

[P_1984d]

Can you not do other things in the bedroom apart from full on sex? Like lie naked, but not get it on? And just rub each other and hug and kisss?

I think it's great that you are waiting to get married before you do it, thats probably as good as it will get for your girl, knowing that she has a man who will wait for her.

Why dont you tell her, you would love to make the relationship more special, but you just dont know what to do. She might be thinking the same thing

[EmmaH]

What about sharing Fantasies???? Maybe just sharing what you would want to experience could spice things up a bit. Good job on the waiting.

[rachael]

Get married quickly.

[Pink Blues]

FORE!!!!!PLAY!!!!


Sex is more than just good old fashioned penetration. Besides kissing on the lips there is kissing on the; neck, ear, arm, pelvis, bellybutton, nipples, knees...to mention just a few. Touching! There is all kinds of touching; soft, stroking, w/ nails and finger tips, palms, hard, w/ a feather, a scarf, message, blowing air on certain body parts...oh god...there is so much more. Talking! Nothing can turn a woman on more than a long conversation that has lots of depth...yep...you guys may not like it BUT we do...so get over it.

Sex before marriage isn't as taboo as it use to be but I think we might have become a little extreme. Waiting for marriage is a personal choice and if you feel it is what you want to do...well, then congrats!!! Enjoy being physical w/o the final act. It is a good time to practice. When you finally do marry and have actual intercourse than you will be a head of the game. Most guys don't take the time to really investigate foreplay...what a shame! Not only that but your lady will know you really care.

My only caution is this: foreplay is a very powerful experience and you might be tempted to go to the final act of the show. There are ways to relieve tension w/o actually going that far... you can mutually explore that...but if you trying to wait...use caution. Oh yeah...and I hope like hell you are old enough to even do foreplay...

Good luck!